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Stopping Bad Habits

Want to know the easiest way to stop a bad habit?

I’ll tell you in a little bit.

First, let me tell you how I have a certain bad habit I will stop today.

This bad habit has ruined many relationships for me and pushed many people away.

This habit comes out of scarcity, as if there is not enough in the world in relationships and that I must hoard and protect the person from other people’s influence.

This caused the opposite reaction from the people I was trying to hoard.

In the short term, the person I was trying to hoard would listen to me.

But slowly over time influence from other people started to kick in.

Other people would start saying bad things about me and start influencing them away from me.

Opposite effect of what I wanted.

This all came from a scarcity mindset, and I’m quickly making abundance a conscious decision.

I’m starting to tell myself, to care for, love, and appreciate everyone.

Be positive to everyone and welcome everyone into my life. I will still keep negative people at a far distance, though I will start saying positive things about people.

Now do you want to know the secret of stopping bad habits?

I already told you.

If you really want to know, let me know by a comment below.

By Bobby Huang

Bobby Huang creates videos and content to help his readers get the most out of their lives. He focuses on getting the most results with the least effort in Information Products and Passive Income. It's not lazy, just called being effective bro.